Sometimes I’m jealous of my younger self.
Which I realize makes absolutely no sense.
The thing is…it’s no secret that I came from a volatile home. But there was a brief period where I didn’t connect the trouble in my house with life in general. I was fortunate that my mom’s job took us around the world. Through my travels, I saw glimpses of good that I clung to fervently…to the extent that when I ultimately left the pain behind, I disconnected from it. I thought that the darkness in my life could be confined back there, in a place and time set apart from everything else. I was an optimist. I hoped that the rest of the world would offer up hope and joy and love.
I spent several summers traveling extensively and eventually learned that it’s not all black and white. There are good and bad people everywhere. I thrust myself wholeheartedly into the world and I was slapped and stung with remarkable beauty and surprising deceit.
On my first big international trip, I was pickpocketed during the flight. There’s nothing like stepping into a foreign land at 19 years old only to realize that your seatmate across the entire Pacific Ocean was a thief! I faltered, frustrated, but I went on to have a wonderful month in Hong Kong. I saw the intense dichotomy of the area: hustling, rich city life against a smattering of simple villages. I befriended workers who told me stories of years gone by without seeing family, of a life spent in servitude.
I slowly came to understand that in this world, you have to cherish joy AND bar yourself against the selfish interests of others.
When I had children, I saw that familiar light in their eyes. They experience various destinations and cultures, and they see all the good. After the struggles we’ve endured to get to this place, Nate and I tend to err on the side of skepticism. But I refuse to let that stop us from framing our children’s lives in a global perspective. These times, these travels, will shape who they become and inspire their hope for the future. I want them seeing the brightness of today without a shadow of worries about tomorrow.
So we do everything we possibly can to protect that innocence and to protect our own precious lives. I serve as their traveling safety net, securing everything from our personal information to our belongings, safeguarding us at all times to ward off those people who might prey on the unsuspecting.
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